“An obstinate and defiant character was accepted in my brothers as an essential condition of masculinity, but in me it could only be pathological,” writes Isabel Allende. “Isn’t it always thus? Girls are denied the right to be angry and thrash about.” I just read Allende’s book The Soul of a Woman. Some of the […]
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Tolerance
by resolutewoman on October 12, 2023 in character, wisdom
“The highest result of education is tolerance,” Helen Keller once said.
Dianne Feinstein
by resolutewoman on September 30, 2023 in character, resolute-women, sexism
“Toughness doesn’t have to come in a pinstripe suit,” Dianne Feinstein once said. Feinstein died on September 29, 2023. She was 90 years old, the longest serving woman senator.
Be silly
by resolutewoman on September 28, 2023 in advice, character, happiness
I found this wonderful quote in the gift shop at the Amon Carter Museum in Fort Worth. It was printed on a tote bag! “Be silly. Be honest. Be kind,” Ralph Waldo Emerson once said. –Joy
Do something
by resolutewoman on September 26, 2023 in change, character
“If you’re just talking, you’re whining,” Teddy Roosevelt once said. A great quote. I read it somewhere and wrote it down. But, according to Google, Teddy Roosevelt didn’t say it. Also, according to Google, Teddy Roosevelt did not say: “Complaining about a problem without proposing a solution is called whining.” –Joy
Tolerance
by resolutewoman on September 19, 2023 in character
“The highest result of education is tolerance,” Helen Keller once said.
Do good
by resolutewoman on September 12, 2023 in advice, character
Abraham Lincoln tried to do good. It’s a good idea! “When I do good, I feel good,” Lincoln once said. “When I do bad, I feel bad. That’s my religion.” I wish everyone would follow Lincoln’s example. I wish everyone felt bad when he/she did bad?! –Joy
Do something!
by resolutewoman on August 22, 2023 in change, character, courage, Uncategorized
Catherine Burks-Brooks was 21 in 1961 when she joined a group of Black and white activists riding a bus through the segregated South. At 11, the Black girl had refused to step out of the way to let white pedestrians pass on the sidewalk. As a teenager, she once threw “Colored” sign off a city […]
Politics and conscience
by resolutewoman on July 15, 2023 in character, courage, Uncategorized
Lincoln’s motives were moral as well as political—a reminder that our finest presidents are those committed to bringing a flawed nation closer to the light, a mission that requires an understanding that politics divorced from conscience is fatal to the American experiment in liberty under law. That’s what Jon Meacham concludes in his book And […]
Independent thinker?
by resolutewoman on June 24, 2023 in character, confidence, courage, Uncategorized
No many of us are independent thinkers, concludes Bret Stephens in The New York Times. “There are very few people who don’t see themselves as independent thinkers. There are even fewer people who are. Most people just want to belong, and the most essential elements of belonging are agreeing and conforming.”
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